Engagement Party FAQ
You're engaged! And I'm sure you've looked up all the timelines and planning checklists, and one of the first things they all mention are your engagement party! While engagement parents are not necessary, and not all couples have them, they can be a lot of fun! (And much more relaxed than some of the other wedding festivities). They are a great way to get together and celebrate with close friends and family members before the planning really hits you full force! Think of this as your Engagement Party FAQ.
-Engagement parties are traditionally hosted by the bride's family, however the grooms family, bridal party, friends, or even the couple themselves can host.
-Ideally they are held soon after the engagement (or ten to twelve months before the wedding) to "kick off" this exciting time.
-Who gets invited depends largely on the style of the celebration. If you are having a formal dinner party, it will most likely only be your closest friends ad family, but if you are having a more relaxed affair- feel free to expand that guest list. As etiquette rules, you should only invite those who can expect to be invited to the wedding. (With the obvious exception of destination and intimate wedding ceremonies).
-Engagement parties can be held almost anywhere- from your favourite restaurant or bar, to someone's backyard for a casual barbecue party.
-The food can also vary greatly depending on how formal of an event you intend to host, and also depending on the venue. If you are having it in someone's home, consider finger foods and a dessert bar- backyard barbecue parties are also always a hit!
-The theme and style of the party should reflect the couple's interest. Decorations should be simple and colour coordinated (although not necessarily in the same theme/colours as the wedding itself).
-Formal, printed invitations are acceptable, but not a necessity. This is one of those rare times where email invitations are actually acceptable!
-Finally, and this one gets asked a lot, gifts are not generally given at an engagement party, although there are exceptions to this rule and some guests may insist upon giving a much appreciated gift. (Make sure you always follow up gifts with a handwritten thank you note!)
-Most importantly, have fun celebrating this incredibly happy and exciting time in your life!